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Is There A War Against Fathers In America?
by Albert Mohler
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Albert Mohler recently interviewed Stephen Baskerville. Dr. Baskerville is a professor at Patrick Henry College and author of the book, Taken Into Custody: The War Against Fatherhood, Marriage and the Family.”

Mohler: I find fascinating the fact that you have a rather aggressive title here: you’re talking about a war against fathers, marriage and the family. There are a lot of people who, I think, are unaware of this war. Help us understand it.

Baskerville: Most people are unaware of it until they are sucked into it—usually through the family court system, divorce or some other method. Americans would be very shocked if they knew what was going on in this country under the name of divorce—“no fault divorce.”

What we call divorce has become essentially a euphemism for government officials, courts primarily, and social service agencies to invade families—to separate children from parents who have done nothing wrong; to plunder the parents for everything they have in many cases and even to criminalize the parents and jail them without trail; to turn them into criminals in ways the parents are powerless to avoid.

The overwhelming victims of this are fathers, though at times it happens to mothers as well. Usually it is not a matter of gender bias, it is a matter of power and money—of the huge machine that has grown up in the last four decades around the question of “no fault divorce,” child custody and related issues.

Mohler: Now in your work you really demonstrate how the “no fault divorce revolution” and the law has brought enormous consequences. Can you help spell those out for us? I think an awful lot of Americans, especially those who are younger, aren’t aware of how the law really has been transformed in this area.

Baskerville: That’s right. The term “no fault” understates the problem. It really is unilateral divorce—involuntary divorce. It allows one spouse to force divorce on the other without the involuntary spouse having done anything wrong. In other words, your spouse can divorce you without you having done anything legally wrong or agreeing to the divorce. In fact, it goes further than that. Maggie Gallagher … describes it as the abolition of marriage, and that is really what it is. The marriage contract is not in any way legally binding anymore. It can be broken without consequence by one spouse unilaterally—the other spouse has no choice. Divorce is simply forced on that spouse. And most often it’s the father.

Mohler: Let’s just revisit the situation before “no fault divorce.” At that time society privileged marriage as a contract above other contracts because it was understood to be more than a contract. Marriage was understood to be the basic building block of civilization. And to dissolve a marriage was understood to be an issue of such consequence that there had to be cause. I think that’s what people don’t understand. When it says “no fault” it really means “no cause.” You don’t have to have a cause now. One spouse can simply decide that he or she—and in a lot of cases it’s both—doesn’t want to be married anymore and there is nothing the other spouse can do to prevent the divorce. Isn’t that the ultimate issue here?

Baskerville: That is correct. And to be fair, though, this was happening even before “no fault divorce.” “No fault divorce” laws really just put the nails in the coffin. They just codified what was already taking place. Therefore, simply repealing “no fault divorce” and reinstating fault in divorce would not solve the problem. Continued...

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In addition to being one of Salem’s nationally syndicated radio talk show hosts, R. Albert Mohler, Jr. is the president of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville.
Subject: puppychen
You're a liar: examples of heterosexual or nuclear families are NOT what gay people say OPRESSES them!
Gays and lesbians have NOTHING against a man and woman being married and having children as they choose! Gays and lesbians have their OWN parents and siblings as examples.

Gays and lesbians have outright said that the LAWS that exclude THEM from marrying another gay person of their choice who is gay, and raising a child obviously in need of a home is what is oppressive.
Gays and lesbians are called (even by attrition) into service for needy children even in their own extended families.
Some have to tend to their aging parents or siblings in need of help.
A MARRIED gay person has far more ability to support not only each other but extended family.
Gays and lesbians have inescapable responsibilities helped by marriage.
As most people do.
These are conservative values: self reliance.
What gay folks want is INCLUSION, and by the SAME standards as established for heterosexuals.
Gay folks know when they are treated to completely hypocritical and contradictory standards and are right to say so when this happens.
And not even in court has anyone proven adverse affects on marriage or married people.
Conjecture, and saying it does over and over again, is only saying it, it's not proof.


puppychen
You're making generalities and the nuclear family isn't under ATTACK, so much as it's been dissolved by unrealistic and unresolved issues that people won't talk about or refuse to acknowledge.
Namely, that men aren't to be assumed that they'd be GOOD fathers simply because they are heterosexual or fertile and fecund.
You love believing the criticism of how gay people don't establish relationships in the long term.
But you haven't brought up a very important fact: does society at large HELP gay couples to do so? Do gay young people get the same support and can they HOPE for marriage with another gay person?
The answer to that is no. So if a group of people hasn't had the same support and been enabled, passing judgement as if INCAPABLE isn't the proper response to a non existent situation.
However, that gay couples DO take marriage seriously enough to no only fight for it in court, but to establish parenthood and spousal care WITHOUT the legal option, says that our society is under utilizing a very committed population.
You can't vilify a population you haven't helped or indeed, supported complicated laws to make establishing stronger relationships possible and better.
If you don't think it's what gay people want, or you think you haven't been given enough evidence to believe otherwise:
How much evidence have you needed to believe marriage is what straight people want?
50% failure rate isn't making you go out and vote for laws against marriage for STRAIGHT people now is it?

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